The narrator of “This is my child!” the three children – Stephen (14 years old), Sonja (10 years) and Antonina (3 years, 11 months). Tatiana talks about typical problems and mistakes in their upbringing.
The child does not waive nipples
Our Antonina almost 4 years. She is emotional and long used a pacifier as a cure for stress. Falls, bumps, upset – a pacifier in his mouth. Tried to
reason with her, but she no arguments were not listened to. I had to think of something. And one beautiful day here at the cottage persuaded Mistaken all three nipples bury it under a Bush. Convinced: they’re sure something will grow. Tosya bravely threw two nipples into the pit. Long stood, holding a favorite – with the monkey. But then decided. We quickly began to dig a hole, afraid that she might change my mind. That evening Sonya hung on the Bushof the stockpiled red lollipops in the form of a nipple. I Tosya said: “Go and see, maybe, something rose…” Find the candy, the daughter was delighted. Later, however, two weeks sometimes even asked for a pacifier, but we said “Sorry, no turning back, and giving away…” Continue reading
The interlocutor sets up the contact, not really worrying how adequately and correctly you will accept it. Drunk unabashedly confesses unfamiliar person on the bus. The interviewee prefers to talk more than listen, he doesn’t care about the birth of own feelings in others. Similar can also be observed when dealing with the bureaucratic system or rude seller. Note
that vocabulary such people are usually quite scarce; the speech rate is excessively fast, because the only goal is to overwhelm you, to bewilder; and communication with you as to the conversation with a chair where you now sit, i.e. no. Your appeal to this interlocutor should be directed to temper his zeal, do not raise the tone, speak slowly. If you show courtesy, but it will be hard and even rigid in his address, it will be difficult to respond to this aggression. The humor on your part would be appropriate only in the case that will not be affected by personal characteristics, though some Continue reading
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My name is Svetlana, I’m 39 years old, I have a daughter 15 years. I got married in claim 21, my husband began from the very first days, I was not the wife he wanted, he said that the way you are I don’t need you, and I tried and tried to please him, doing all that was in my power, and unable, too, but I heard in his address, only the accusations of insult and humiliation, and then it came to blows.
I gradually turned into a downtrodden, scared, worn-out, trembled at every sound, afraid his panic, all thoughts were directed only to please him, nor himself to anyone, only him, and he had not noticed, looked down on me with disdain, I didn’t want to come home when it was not, it was for my daughter and great happiness, finally left me alone, I thought.
It came to the hospital, I got sick, Continue reading